Ways to work together.
Private coaching for women and men, couples work, breathwork, and an in-person circle. Different rooms for different seasons, each one therapy-informed and built around the same truth: heal the relationship with yourself, and everything else follows.
Find the room that fits you.
Private coaching, couples work, a monthly circle, and breathwork. Every path leads back to the same place, home to yourself.
Choose Yourself
The 6-month journey
One program, two journeys. Six months of private coaching with Nikki, start to finish, at the depth real change requires, no shortcuts, no rushing you out the door. Choose the path that speaks to you, a women's journey and a men's journey, each shaped around what you actually carry. This is the heart of the work, and where most people begin.
- Private coaching with Nikki, every step
- Two paths, one for women and one for men
- Support between sessions when you need it
- Your own Inner Mirror library to come back to
Come home to yourself.
- 6 months of private coaching
- A women's path and a men's path
- Worldwide, fully virtual
- A few spots each season
Other paths home.
Different rooms for different seasons. Not sure which is yours? Start with a call and we'll find it together.
The Immersion
A full year of deep, unhurried transformation, for the work that goes all the way down and stays.
- 12 months of private coaching
- The full arc, with time to integrate
- Ongoing support between sessions
Choose Us
Couples coaching for two people who want to feel close, seen, and on the same team again.
- For couples, 6 months
- Break the loops, learn to repair
- Virtual, worldwide
Breathwork
Certified RESET breathwork to settle your nervous system and reach what talking alone can't.
- Conscious connected breathing
- Guided visualization and somatic release
- All welcome, no experience needed
Sacred Women's Circle
An intimate in-person women's circle in Pleasanton to slow down and come back to yourself.
- Monthly, in person
- Reflection, breathwork, sound healing
- 6 to 10 women
Start with a call
A warm, no-pressure discovery call to talk through where you are and which path fits best.
- Free, 1:1 with Nikki
- No script, no sales pitch
- Find the right fit together
For the one who's ready to feel like themselves again.
You're capable and you care hard, and you show up for the people you love. This is where you put some of that care back into you and get to your best, the grounded, alive, fully-you version. You show up for everyone. Now it's your turn.
High-touch, personal, and built around you.
Private coaching
Regular sessions with Nikki, start to finish. This is deep, personal work, never a copy-paste template.
A therapy-informed approach
Everything Nikki knows about the mind, the nervous system, and relationships, brought into a forward-focused coaching container.
Support between sessions
Voice and message support when you need it most, so you're held between our calls, not just on them.
Personalized practices
Reflections, tools, and rituals chosen for where you actually are, so the work continues in your real life.
The Inner Mirror library
Guided meditations and reflections to return to any time you need to come home to yourself.
A warm, honest space
Compassion and truth in equal measure. Every part of you is welcome here, no performance required.
Questions, answered.
Is this therapy?
No. Choose Yourself is relationship coaching, not therapy. It's forward-focused and available worldwide. Coaching does not diagnose or treat mental health conditions. If therapy is the better fit for you, Nikki's clinic, Journey to New Beginnings, offers licensed care for California residents.
How is coaching different from what I've tried before?
Most programs hand you strategies and wish you luck. We go to the root. Because of Nikki's clinical background, the work reaches the patterns underneath the behavior, so the change actually holds.
What does it cost?
Investment is shared with you on your discovery call once we know it's a fit. This is high-touch, private work with only a few spots each season, and it's priced that way.
Do I have to be a woman?
No. Choose Yourself has two journeys, one for women and one for men, so there's a path shaped for you either way. The Sacred Women's Circle is the one women-only space.
How do I start?
Book a discovery call. It's a warm, no-pressure conversation to hear where you are, share how the work could support you, and feel whether we're a fit.
Heal in good company.
Beyond private coaching, Nikki hosts circles, workshops, and retreats for people choosing themselves, together. Dates below are placeholders for this mockup.
Coming Home to Yourself
A 90-minute guided evening of reflection, breath, and honest conversation about choosing yourself again.
Boundaries Without Guilt
A hands-on workshop to help you say no, protect your energy, and follow through, at home and at work.
Choose You, A Weekend Retreat
A small, intimate in-person weekend to slow down, reconnect, and remember who you are, held in community.
The Most Important Relationship
A live masterclass on healing the relationship with yourself, and why everything else follows.
Your next chapter starts with one conversation.
Let's talk, a warm, no-pressure discovery call to see if working together is your next step.
Book a Discovery Call